"Love Does Not Hurt"

Reflections4Life May 31, 2015

“Love Does Not Hurt”

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” 1 Corinthians 13:5-8

Scripture Contemplation: 1 Corinthians 13; Ephesians 5; 1 John 5…

            ©Vladmir Kush

I am certain many will disagree with me. But the truth is: Love. Love itself does not hurt. But endures and brings hope, as well healing. People "hurt" people. We hurt ourselves and others and still say we love you. Whereby, whenever we love it is immediately associated with hurt and disappointment. Which leaves us guarded and unable to be vulnerable or to love completely and unconditionally in any of our relationships.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration. Whatever you believe you know about love, let God teach you. Allow the Father to show you, Himself. For He is love. And through him we learn how to truly love.

When we are hurt by someone who says they love us, we sometimes unknowingly shut a part of hearts down. That part that allows love to move freely and grow. That part that loves unconditionally. And sometimes we consciously make a decision to never let someone in close enough to hurt us again.

We do a lot a damage in the name of love. But love had nothing to do with it. Love does not hurt. It heals. Love is not disrespectful or disregarding. Love cares and shows concern. It brings hope in dark places. Love is not reckless or careless or in a rush. Love takes it time. It is thoughtful and kind. Love does not tear down and destroy. Love builds and restores. Love does not blame or keep score. Love is unconditional, forgives and moves on. Love is action. It is compassionate as well as passionate. Love is God.

In our lives, we will be disappointed. And yes we will be hurt at sometimes. However, when you have love, understand unconditional love; it teaches you how to navigate life's journey. How to go through a storm. How to continue to love in spite of it all. It also teaches you how to be strong, how to endure, and to move on.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you.  Love is many things; powerful above all. But remember: Love does not hurt; people hurt people. Love endures; it is patient and kind. Love—real, sincere, true love—brings healing and is unconditional, as well as wise. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"In Service of Others"

Reflections4Life May 24^th, 2015

“In Service of Others”

“I beseech you, therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.” Romans 12:1

Scripture Contemplation: Romans 9; 12; Philippians 2…

As we spend this weekend celebrating Memorial Day, it is an honor to remember those who served and have given their lives in service of others.

Each day we are granted is an opportunity to make a difference in not only our lives, but the lives of others. To be in the position to help others, gives us a chance to change lives.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration. Our Heavenly Father has given us a great gift: the opportunity to serve. When we understand the heart of a servant, then we understand the power we have to change lives. Allow God to show you how to serve and change lives.

In this life, I would hope that we could learn to give without the thought of only doing to receive something from someone in return. It is so much more than give and take. It is about selflessness. The ability to make a difference in the lives of others; even if you get no recognition for what you do. It’s not about being seen or heard, just about serving and making a difference.

I am in awe of each and every service person that makes a decision to serve their country. For whatever their reasons, it is a great sacrifice that they make. Not only for self, but also their families. Never knowing if one day may be their last while in service to their country and patriots.

When I think on the goodness of God, I think of all that He grants us each and every day. But mostly I think upon the freedom He grants us to choose how we will live our lives and affect the lives of others.

Life has its ups and downs, but it is how we live our lives personally that determines our quality of life. When we make a choice to serve others, we choose to give a part of ourselves. And when we do, we open up our hearts to unknown blessings and joys.

Not everyone gets it. Not everyone understands the heart of those who desire to serve. But everyone receives a benefit from those that choose to.

I give thanks and prayer for those men and women who have served and given their lives in service for the freedoms that we enjoy, and some take for granted. I honor you for the sacrifices that you have made. For the honor of your service. Happy Memorial Day. Blessings to the families that made the ultimate sacrifice in servitude.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. May you be blessed with the heart that has the capacity to serve others; to make a difference in the life of someone who you may never even know. Be open to the will of god. It will change your life in unexpected ways. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Just The Way You Are"

Reflections4Life  May 17, 2015

“Just the Way You Are.”

“Come now, and let us reason together,” Says the Lord, “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” Isaiah 1:18

Scripture Contemplation: John 3; Hebrews 6; I John 5…

For so many of us, we try our best to always look our best; even when we feel less than our best. There are also times when we try to be someone that we are not, just to be accepted.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration. Let the love of God wash over you. Walk into His embrace with the knowledge that God already know you, and knows exactly what you need.

Why? Why do we do these things to ourselves? Why do we accept less than we deserve just to be wanted and desired by others? Trust me: if you are not being you, your authentic self when beginning a relationship; you are short changing yourself. The truth of the matter is that you should be accepted and wanted just as you are. Not for the facade you put on. Sooner or later the truth will manifest. And when it does, then what?

Thank God He accepts us just the way we are. You don't have to pretend. You don't have to change. You don't have to hide or fake a thing. The Father accepts you AND wants you just the way you are.

Isn't that wonderful? Doesn't that feel liberating? To know that our Creator, when we come to Him, accepts us just as we are; faults, flaws, and all. We don't have to pretend with God. We do not have to worry about looking perfect, being perfect, or saying the right thing. The only thing God cares about is the heart. And that we desire Him.

So many "religious" folk and "church" folk have really screwed things up for people. Their religious pomposity and hypocrisy giving God a bad rap. This is why we must seek and know God for ourselves. To understand that, you cannot get yourself together first; you cannot come correct or perfect; you don't need the perfect garments; you don't have to be sinless; and you don't need money to come to God. You just need a willing heart and a teachable spirit. God will take care of all the rest.  He loves you...just the way you are.

 My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. You do not have to change yourself in any way to be accepted and loved by God. He already loves you and accepts you, and waits patiently for you to show up…just the way you are. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"The Power of a Mother's Love"

Reflections4Life May 10, 2015

"The Power of a Mother's Love."

    "She opens her mouth with wisdom, And on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness." Proverbs 31: 26-27

Scripture Contemplation: Proverbs 31; Ephesians 5...

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers, and mothers to be. R.I.P to all the mothers who have gone on to heaven.

This is my first Mother's day without my Mom. Yes. It hurts, but it is not as bad as I thought it would be, and I can only attribute that to the fact that she is still with me. In my heart. In my spirit. In my everyday life. She is here. More than a memory. She is here, because her love never left.

I pray today's Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it to be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration. May your life know the power of a mother's love. Cherish those women that God has bought into your life. Be it biological or surrogate. Take advantage of the gift, and apply the lessons of that love to your life.

If I could choose one lesson my mom gave to her children that has had the most impact, it would be the power of love. My mother showed us everyday of her life what love--unconditional love--looked liked. And the power it had to touch and change lives.

Our mother was a nurturer at best. Always reaching out to others. Always providing and taking people in. Being the mother to so many of our friends and neighborhood kids.

There was no one beneath her. No child to difficult. No situation too taboo, that would keep our mom from showing love. And in doing so, we witnessed the power of love in the transformed lives of those she touched. Not just them, but also their families and friends.

There is power in love. Power in unconditional love. The power to transform the hardest of hearts. The power to tame the harshest of beasts. The power to renew and revive a life on the brink of death.

Yes. Love is powerful. Especially the love of a mother. There is no comparison, in my opinion, of that of a mother's love. That love that reaches out to you even when you have fallen so low and feel like you can't get back up. That love that tells you, you can always come back home when you're ready to. That love that says, no matter how much you screw up, how far you fall, there will be someone right there to love you back through it all.

We were blessed to have the mother we had. It was quite an adventure. There is no doubt in our minds, that our mother's love was a direct reflection of God in her. We were blessed and fortunate to know just how loved we were and are. And so were our friends and family.

There is definitely power in love. Are you strong enough to walk in it? Can you handle its costs? Because what I know for sure: love like this is not simple and it can sometime hurt those who possess it.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. May your life be blessed with the power of a mother's love. Cherish every moment you have. Take the lessons, apply them to your life, and let the love guide you. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing. 

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"The Best Thing to Do is Often the Hardest Thing to Do"

Reflections4Life  May 3, 2015

"The Best Thing to Do is Often the Hardest Thing to Do."

5 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6

Scripture Contemplation: Psalms 37; Proverbs 3; Jeremiah 32; Hebrews 11...

Throughout our life's journey, we will be met with many tests, trials, paths, and forks in the road. We will experience love, pain, joy, hate, anger, confusion, happiness, uncertainty, and peace. Just to name a few.

There will also come a time in our life's journey when we will have to make difficult decisions. Our hearts will be divided; even heartbroken. However, if we trust God and follow His instructions, we will eventually see we have done the right thing.

I pray today's Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration. When you are faced with difficult decisions, and heart is uncertain; allow God to lead you. Trust Him where you cannot trace Him. And believe that everything is working out for your good.

Sometimes the best thing to do can be the hardest thing to do. Especially when our hearts and emotions are involved. Yet, if we did nothing, did not make a choice; chances are greater that we would lose what we have been fighting to hold onto.

There will be times when we will just have to walk away and not look back. Put everything in God's hands and trust Him to do what He does best, and definitely what we cannot do.

Whether it's a relationship, job, friendship, opportunity--we must do what is best, even though it may be the hardest thing to do.

One of the hardest things I have ever witnessed was a parent walking away from their drug-addicted child. Oh, they were there for them in the sense of support, but they could no longer be an enabler. The hardest thing to hear was their child on the phone, begging, then blaming them should anything happened to them. The hardest thing was to walk away. But it was also the best thing. The separation was heartbreaking, but the deliverance and healing was the sweetest reward.

Yes. Sometimes we will face heartache and pain. We will do all that we can. Then we will come to that fork in the road, where we either continued to do what we've been doing and getting the same results, or we do what is the best thing, even if it's the hardest to do, and walk away; leaving it all in God's capable hands.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Though it may be the hardest thing you ever have to do; always do what is best, believing in your heart that God has you covered, and will see you through. Trust Him. He's right there with you. You are blessed.  Now go and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"In This Moment"

Reflections4Life April 26^th, 2015

“In This Moment”

“Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?  Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” Matthew 6:25-27

Scripture Contemplation: Ecclesiastes 3; Matthew 6; 1 Peter 5…

We are often worried about what happened yesterday, and what is going to take place tomorrow that, we miss this moment. We do not enjoy the gift of today and right now.

At this moment, there are people crushed, literally and figuratively speaking, by the devastating earthquake in Nepal. There are families searching and hoping that their loved ones are safe. All they have is this moment.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Be present in this moment. Do not dwell in the past you cannot change, or a tomorrow that hasn’t arrived. Live in this moment with gratitude. Allow God to fill you this moment, so that He can be the one who prepares you for a tomorrow, and washes away the cares of yesterday.

We find so many things to complain about. There are so many things we can come up with that we want to change. But how often do we stop, and be grateful, truly grateful for this moment? The moment we are in right now, breathing, feeling, seeing, hearing, and receiving.

God is a faithful God. He knows our thoughts. He knows our hearts. He knows what we have gone through, and what lies before us. He encourages us to take no thought on tomorrow; about what we will eat or what we will wear. For He has made it abundantly clear that, He will take care of us.

In this moment, where are your thoughts? What is your focus on? Are you enjoying this new day? Are you taking the time to relish in this awesome gift of today? Or, are you hindered by the mistakes of yesterday and what ifs of tomorrow?

If we could sincerely be grateful for this moment; seeking to do things the way God would have us to do, I suspect we would have minimal regrets in our lives. Enjoy this moment. Be grateful for this moment. Love with all you have in this moment.

 My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Live in this moment with the certainty that God has taken care of your every tomorrow. And whatever took place in the past, He has taken care of that also. Do miss the miracle of today by being wrapped up in things you cannot change. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Behind The Masks"

Reflections4Life April 19^th, 2015

“Behind The Masks”

“…But Jesus’ primary concern was his disciples. He said to them, “Watch yourselves carefully so you don’t get contaminated with Pharisee yeast, Pharisee phoniness. You can’t keep your true self hidden forever; before long you’ll be exposed. You can’t hide behind a religious mask forever; sooner or later the mask will slip and your true face will be known. You can’t whisper one thing in private and preach the opposite in public; the day’s coming when those whispers will be repeated all over town.” Luke 12:1-3

Scripture Contemplation: Genesis 3; Matthew 5; 2 Corinthians 4…

It is amazing how many are hiding who they truly are. Whether it's because of fear, shame, insecurities or deception; there are countless people who are not being their authentic selves.

We can fool people only for so long before the truth comes knocking at our doors, demanding payment. Once we lie, we have to keep lying just to cover up the very first lie. Some have lied so much and have worn a mask for so long that, they now believe their own deception as fact and utter truth.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Be who you are without trepidation. Allow Holy Spirit to teach you and lead you into all truth. Allow God to remove any fear or shame, and give you confidence and boldness. Own the masterpiece He created you to be.

For all the lies and deception, we can never lie to God. No matter how many masks we wear, He still sees us for who we truly are. He knows our heart, and He knows our reasons for doing the things we do.

God warns us to be truthful. He gives us the opportunity to pull the masks off, and to begin walking in truth. He knocks on the doors of our hearts. He sends word through His messengers, through circumstances and situations. He affords us the opportunity to turn things around in private before we are exposed publicly.

Some of us just do not heed the warnings and find ourselves in unfavorable situations, trying to do damage control.

Social Media has allowed some people to hide behind a screen as their mask. Becoming who they want to be; portraying a lie to the world around them. Many are not happy with who they are, or where they come from. So, they either create new identities for themselves, worse they steal someone else’s.

The masks we hide behind have a tendency to weld itself to us like a vice grip the longer we wear them. We find it hard to release because we have lived the lie for so long that the truth is no longer recognized. We eventually lose who we truly are.

Do yourself a favor and drop the masks. Be who you are. Whether or not people accept you, like you, reject you or hate you; be true to who you are. Stand in your truth. No one can be a better you than you can. Don't fall for the smoke and mirrors of the world around you. Don't be that person who constantly lies to cover up the first lie. Stop deceiving people. Stop deceiving yourself.  Because in the end, when the truth is revealed...and the truth is ALWAYS revealed; you may find yourself alone and the one carrying the most pain.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Live and walk in truth. Don't hide behind a mask. Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to be accepted or to please another, or to practice to deceive just to get what you want. Own who you are and walk with confidence. And whatever is meant for you; you will eventually receive at the right time and season. You are blessed. Now go…and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Do Over!"

Reflections4Life April 12^th, 2015

“Do Over!”

“And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpillar, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.” Joel 2:25

Scripture Contemplation: Isaiah 57; Jeremiah 30; Joel 2…

There are times in our lives when we want a do over. Let's face it; we can royally screw up sometimes. Make the most outrageous mistakes, and cause a lot of pain in the process.

Thank God for do-overs! The chance to begin again. Sure, there are things we will never be able to fix or repair. There are some relationships that will never be mended. However, as we start over in our lives, God will grant us do-overs in some situations of our lives.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Allow Holy Spirit to move freely in your life, bringing comfort, understanding, and change. Be open to the will of God, and you may receive an opportunity that you thought would never come.

Maybe we burned some bridges along the way. Destroyed some friendships in the process. Perhaps a marriage or relationship didn't end well. As we move on, starting our lives over; God may also, at some point when we are ready, grant us a do-over. A do over at love and relationships and marriage.

I realized a while ago, that though we may royally blow things; we may have caused much hurt and pain in relationships, and have failed in our lives too many times to count; God can grant us a do-over. A chance to get things right a second time around. An opportunity to make the right choices.

When we start over, we are beginning again with a clean slate. But not everyone gets a chance at a do-over. A do over in marriage, relationships, even parenthood. There is a difference in starting over and a do over, in my opinion. We can start fresh; get a new lease on life. However, we do not always get a second shot at relationships, marriage, or parenthood. We don’t always get a do-over for certain careers and opportunities that were available to us the first time around. Sadly, sometimes it’s true when they say that ship has sailed. Yet, there are some situations where we get the opportunity at a do-over. A chance to be that better wife or husband. To be that parent we wished we were back then. To do a job the way it should be done.

Some of us fail miserably the first time around. And by the Blessings of God, we may find ourselves in a situation where we get a do over. A chance to be the person you should have been in the first place

One of the wonderful things about God is His power of restoration. As we start our lives, God has the power to restore that which was lost. To grant us, a do-over at the things we failed at miserably.

Thank God for His second, third, fourth and fifth chances! It's by His mercies and goodness that we have not been destroyed by our foolishness but granted a do-over to do things right. You have a second chance at life when you received Christ. What is there, if anything, would you like to do over in your life? What mistakes or royal screw-ups have you committed, that if you had the opportunity to do it all over again, you would? God has the power to restore you and grant you that do over.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Don’t give up on life because you may have made the wrong choices. Allow God to restore you and bless you with a second chance at life. Allow His forgiveness to wash over you. There just may be a do over in your life, as well as your second chance. A do-over for what you thought was long over and impossible. You are blessed. Now go…and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Happy Resurrection Sunday!"

Reflections4Life  April 5^th, 2015

“Happy Resurrection Sunday!”

For the love of Christ compels us, because we judge thus: that if One died for all, then all died; and He died for all, that those who live should live no longer for themselves, but for Him who died for them and rose again.  2 Corinthians 5:14-15

Scripture Contemplation: John 11; 20; 21; 1 Corinthians 15…

Good day Beautiful Souls. Regardless to what you celebrate or believe; Resurrection or Easter-- I wish you and your family a beautiful day of joy, happiness and love with one another. Make every moment count.

This Resurrection Sunday is quite difficult for me without my mom. Especially knowing how much this season meant to her. Yet, it is because of this very season and its reason that I can be comforted in knowing where my mom is, with whom, and that I will see her again.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. I pray this Resurrection Sunday be one of healing and restoration. May everything in your life that should not have died, be resurrected by the power and love of our Heavenly Father.

I am determined to walk in my faith and draw strength from it, allowing this season to have its place in my heart; holding on to its promises. I will relish in the love and joy from not just today, but from throughout the years. I will take comfort in my memories, and hold closely to my heart the many lessons my mother taught me.

We spend a lot of time with regrets and stewing over what should have or could have been. Instead, we can take the lessons of yesterday, learn from them, and receive what God has for us today.

Eternal life was guaranteed us over 2,000 years ago. The promise of life eternally with our heavenly Father, and those who have gone before us in Christ. I am collecting on that guarantee. And I will live my life accordingly; in gratitude and faith for all that was sacrificed for me.

The magnitude of what Christ did so many generations ago continues to impact many lives today. For every believer, I hope that you can draw from the strength of the fruit of the seeds planted so long ago. That, you can walk with the knowledge and understanding of what Christ did for each and every one of us. And I hope, that your life can be a walking epistle for all that do not know the power and love of Christ’s saving grace.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Enjoy your day. Enjoy your loved ones. Take advantage of life and its many joys. We spend far too much time worrying, when the greatest threat to us has been dealt with, when Christ went to the Cross, died for us, and was resurrected to the enemy's chagrin. Live. Laugh. Love. Jesus has already paid it all. You are blessed. Now go…and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Out The Box"

Reflections4Life March 29^th, 2015

“Out The Box”

“Then He looked at them and said, “What then is this that is written: ‘The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone’?” Luke 20:17

Scripture Contemplation: Psalm 118; Matthew 13; Mark 11; Luke 4; John 12…

Happy Palm Sunday!

There is a certain freedom that comes when you walk in your truth, and stop living to please and placate others, but live your life as you will, with a desire to please God alone.

Certainly you would love for those who love you to always understand and accept you for who you truly are, and not for whom they think you are or should be. But people are people, and sometimes they just don't get it, nor do they see it. And sometimes, they will see what they want to see.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. As we celebrate this Palm Sunday, let us remember all that led to cost of our redemption. And hold in our hearts, that the price has already been paid, and there is no one left to charge us, when Jesus has handled the bill.

People have the tendency to put you in a box; see you through one lens when there are so many different components to who you are. I suppose, as we celebrate Palm Sunday, one may be able to identify with the life of Christ. Many saw Him as Rabbi, teacher, friend, and miracle worker. Some saw Him as a threat. But few saw Him as the Son of God or the Savior. For many, He was defined as the carpenter’s son. No one special. Nothing more or less. Having placed him in a box in their mind and hearts, they could not receive Him any other way or receive the blessing of His truth. For Christ, it hurt that they could not believe. Not for His sake, but for theirs. He knew who He was; even when others did not and would not accept it.

I cannot help but to be grateful for all that Jesus has done. For giving His life. For sticking to the plan and not being deterred by the opinions of those who only knew and could only see and accept Him as the son of a Carpenter, and not for the promised Savior that was prophesied.

How many of you have allowed people to place you in a box? How many have allowed the opinions and the need for another's acceptance to determine what you do and what you believe about yourself?

I thank God for the mother I had. She encouraged me to stand in my truth and discover all of me, and be comfortable in my skin. She knew I was more than what people saw or believed. She understood a box could never contain me. God created so much greatness in me, that it won't allow me to be defined by a few titles that some give me. No. I am a child of God with many different attributes. Walking in my greatness. And enjoying and discovering the many facets of me. I pray the same for you. Blessings.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Don’t allow the opinions and the short-sightedness of others to confine you to a box. To, make you limit yourself to one fact, so you may please and be accepted by others. God has created greatness in you. There is more inside you and about you than what meets the eye. More than where you come from or what you were born into. You are who God says you are, and who you believe yourself to be. No limits. Dare to live outside the box. You are blessed. Now go…and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Live, Laugh, Love"

Reflections4Life March 22^nd, 2015

“Live, Laugh, Love”

“My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” James 1:2-4

Scripture Contemplation: Psalm 81; James 1…

Live, laugh, love. Three small yet powerful words. Words we sometimes forget. Sometimes take for granted. And sometimes have no clue as to how or where to begin.

For some of us, it's far easier said than done. For others, it's a facade they live behind to hide the truth from the world of what is truly going on. To hide the pain, hurt, and disappointment; and even shame.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Move forward through difficult times by clinging to the hand of God. Allow Holy Spirit to comfort you, and teach you how to live, laugh, and love through the most solemn and painful times of your life.

Many of us don't even know where to begin. Our lives have been a series of monumental let downs. To live? What for? To laugh? At what? To love? Who? They struggle to love themselves. And to love others seems like a risk with very few benefits, but a whole lot of potential for heartbreak.

Our life's journey will be filled with many different paths and opportunities that we must choose. Hopefully, we make the wise decision. However, we do have a pension for not doing so all the time. Yet, even the wise paths still have its tests and trials. We will be faced with some difficulties, situations and circumstances that will have us questioning ourselves, and the ability to live, laugh, and love.

What I come to know for certain is, that those three small yet powerful words are a choice. Our choice. No matter what we face in life. No matter how difficult and painful our life journey may get; to live, laugh, and love is a choice we make.

As children, people choose for us. As grow, and hopefully mature, we make our own decisions. And whether the outcome is favorable or not, we still have a choice. We have a choice to respond or react. We have the choice to give up or press on. We have the choice to keep living life, finding laughter where we can, and continuing to love—give love, receive love, show love—regardless to our experiences.

There will always be hard times. We will more than likely be disappointed in life at one time or another. Our tests and trials will seem insurmountable. And that's when we must choose to continue to live, laugh, and love in spite of it all, and any previous painful experiences. It is a choice to move forward, or stay and give up. As children of God, we must remember: greater is He in us than he that is in this world. We can make it. No matter what it looks like right now.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. I choose to live, laugh, and love. Even when it is the most difficult thing to do. I learned that from my mother. And I pray that whatever is going on in your life, that in spite of it all, you will choose also to live, laugh, and love. You are blessed. Now go…and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Acceptance"

Reflections4Life  March 15, 2015

"Acceptance"

     "But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light..." 1 Peter 2:9
Scripture Contemplation: Isaiah 65; 2 Corinthians 5; Galatians 6; 1 Peter 2...

I sincerely pray for you, that today and each day that follows is filled with happiness, joy, peace, love and acceptance.

Why is it so hard for us to accept what God says about us, but readily believe what the enemy and his minions have to say concerning us?

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Let your heart and mind be filled with the peace and love of God. Accept who the Father has called you to be. Rest in His truth and do not be deterred by the lies of the enemy.

We live in such a world that tearing one another down, pointing out one's flaws, and degrading someone is acceptable behavior. Well, it's not, Beloveds. That is not what God wants us to accept and believe about ourselves.

Even when we mess up, make mistakes, willfully sin, He still wants us to know, that we are better than that. Our past, our mistakes, and failures do not define who we are. Who God says we are; who He has declared us to be is, what truth is. Even if it takes us a while to get there.

We must learn to accept and believe what God says concerning who we are, and stop listening to the negativity and lies, and hurtful words of those who do not know our heart or the first thing about who God called us to be. Ignore them; even if it is your own family. You are your own person who God says there is greatness in, waiting to come forth. Accept it Beloved. Accept the truth. Accept yourself. Accept the greatness in you.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Let your heart dwell on the truth of who God says you are. Let your heart be filled with acceptance and abundant love for the person that you are, and God has decreed you to be. Evict the enemy from your thoughts and your heart. Allow God to bring healing as you walk in the greatness that is you. You are blessed. Now go and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"Grace and Peace"

Reflections4Life  March 8, 2015

"Grace and Peace."

      "And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." 2 Corinthians 12:9

Scripture Contemplation: Ephesians 2; Esther 2; Job 41; Psalm 84; Isaiah 12; 42; Philipians 4...

It is another new day, and surely it is because the blessing of God that we were not consumed by deeds of yesterday. The blessing of life, of a brand new day, should be celebrated. For we get another opportunity to get things right. To let our souls become intimately acquainted with the Lord.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Let your heart be filled with grace and peace of the Father. Allow the grace of God to cover you, as His peace envelops you.

This past Friday, my mother's life was celebrated, as we gathered for her home-going services. There were tears, but there was also laughter, praise, and shouting of the goodness of God. Just like my mom would have wanted.

My mother was not always saved. She had one hell of a past! As my brother stated to those gathered: "You all know Sister Pat, but I knew her well before that!" As my mother's relationship grew with the Lord, she would try and reach as many people as she could, for God. As she said: "If I can party and sin that hard with all my might, and get people to follow me, then surely I owe the Lord just as much, if not more, dedication considering the grace and peace He showed a sinner like me."

Each time someone would call, my mom's greeting was the same: Grace and Peace. Without fail, whether she felt well or not; or if she was half sleep, you'd hear, grace and peace. My niece asked her why she answered like that. My mother stated they are words of blessings being decreed over each caller’s life. And a reminder, that if it had not been for God's grace, she couldn't make it. And if she didn't have His peace, she would have lost her mind and life long ago. But because of God's grace and peace, she lived to tell her testimony and all the things that God did for her.

There are not enough words to describe the loss I feel in my soul because my mother's physical presence is not here. Yet, I feel her all around me. Her love, her lessons, her laughter—they are all a part of me. It brings me comfort to know that she is resting well. That, she is now praise dancing before our Lord.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Grace and peace. Two small but powerful words that can completely change our lives. May God's grace be sufficient for you; to keep you and carry you through all that you go through. And may the peace that surpasses all understanding, rest in your heart, mind, and soul. You are blessed. Now go...and be a blessing!

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.

"A Grateful Disposition"

Reflections4Life March 1, 2015

“A Grateful Disposition.”

“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18

Scripture Contemplations: Romans 14; Ephesians 5; Colossians 3; 1 Corinthians 2…

Nothing compares to a person with a grateful heart. A person that has taken a stance to have a grateful disposition regardless to what is happening in their lives or around them.

There is much that has happened in our lives, and much that will happen. It is the disposition of our hearts that will determine the kind of journey we encounter, and how long certain trials and tests last.

I pray today’s Reflections brings comfort and peace to your heart and mind. I decree it be a continued source of encouragement and inspiration for your heart, mind, and soul. Let your heart be filled with joy and the love of the Father. Allow Him to guard your heart and you navigate through the trials of this life. Let your heart be content with God, having the characteristic of gratitude, because you know and understand that no matter what happens in this life, God will always have your back.

As I navigate through the pain of my mother's transition, I cannot help but to be grateful for the years I was blessed to have with her in this earth. My mother was a woman of substance. A woman who understood matters of the heart and the importance of having a grateful disposition.

There are things that lie behind us, and things that lie before us. Many things that we have no control over. But the most powerful thing is that which lies within us. What we carry in our hearts holds the power to change lives, to affect the course of our life journey, and touch the lives of many.

A grateful disposition allows us to walk through difficulties and not give up. It allows us to maintain hope in a hopeless situation. It encourages us to believe when it seems impossible, and whispers that miracles still happen; just in ways we may not understand.

Things will not always go the way we desire. Life happens, and it is not always sweet, delightful, or to our liking. Pain and suffering will occur. Loss will be felt. However, there will also be joy and happiness. There will be good times, and moments when things do go our way. But whether things do or don’t (go our way), we must maintain a disposition of gratitude. We must hold a place in our hearts that will be grateful; even if it’s just having gratitude for one more breath of life.

My pain is palpable, at best. I feel like I am in a fog with my mother no longer here in the flesh to hold, kiss and hug. Yet, I am grateful for the time we had. For the lessons, she taught me, the life she gave and provided for me. Her laughter, her wisdom, her love…all living on within myself and my brothers and her grandchildren. Life goes on. And I take comfort in the fact that this is not a goodbye, but: “I’ll see you later," which allows me to smile through the pain.

My Beloveds, may the spirit of peace and prosperity find permanent rest in your lives. I decree that every good thing that God has ordained for your life will become evident to you. Let your disposition be one of gratitude. No matter the trials and the tests, let your heart be rooted in gratitude. For, it will lead you to a place of peace and understanding. You are blessed, now go and be a blessing.

©2015. Ruthe McDonald. All Rights Reserved.